Embracing Intimacy: A Holistic Approach to Overcoming Painful Sex with Latitude Wellness

Embarking on a journey of intimate well-being is a path we all navigate uniquely, and at Latitude Wellness in Vancouver, we want you to know that you're not alone in facing challenges during intercourse. In this blog, we will openly discuss the intricacies of pain during sex, offering insights into what it is and the diverse factors influencing it. More importantly, we'll share the compassionate support and tailored solutions that Latitude Wellness provides, designed to be your guiding light through this journey. If pain during intercourse has been a part of your experience, remember that understanding and assistance are just moments away.

Understanding Vaginismus: Primary and Secondary Causes


Pain during sex, clinically known as dyspareunia, encompasses various conditions, and one of the key contributors is vaginismus. Understanding both primary and secondary vaginismus is crucial in navigating the challenges associated with pain during intercourse.

Primary Vaginismus:  Primary vaginismus occurs when individuals experience involuntary muscle spasms in the pelvic floor from the onset of attempting penetration. Psychological factors such as fear, anxiety, or negative past experiences often contribute to this primary form of vaginismus.

Secondary Vaginismus:   Secondary vaginismus manifests later in life after a period of pain-free intercourse. It can result from various factors, including trauma, childbirth, medical conditions, impact following chemotherapy or radiation, or infections. The fear of pain becomes associated with intimacy, triggering involuntary muscle contractions.

Your Guide to Healing:  Therapeutic Approaches

At Latitude Wellness, we take pride in our holistic approach to healing, integrating the expertise of our Vancouver registered clinical counsellors and pelvic floor physiotherapists to provide comprehensive support for individuals struggling with pain during sex, particularly vaginismus.

Counseling for Emotional Support

Our Vancouver registered clinical counselors at Latitude Wellness offer a safe space for individuals and couples to explore the emotional complexities surrounding vaginismus. Various therapeutic approaches may include:

Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT helps identify and modify negative thought patterns and behaviors associated with fear or anxiety about penetration. This approach empowers individuals to develop healthier coping mechanisms and break the cycle of negative associations. It empowers individuals to develop healthier coping mechanisms.

 Mindfulness-Based Approaches: Mindfulness techniques focus on being present in the moment, helping individuals manage anxiety and cultivate a positive mindset toward intimacy. These practices promote relaxation and enhance overall well-being.

 Trauma-Informed Therapy: For those with a history of trauma contributing to vaginismus, trauma-informed therapy provides a compassionate and supportive framework for healing. It allows individuals to explore past experiences in a safe and understanding environment.

Pelvic Floor Physiotherapy: Tools for Physical Healing

 Our skilled Vancouver pelvic floor physiotherapists play a vital role in addressing the physical aspects of vaginismus. Through a range of tools and techniques, they aim to alleviate pain and promote overall pelvic health.

 Internal Pelvic Floor Release Techniques: These specialized techniques involve gentle manual manipulation to release tension in the pelvic floor muscles. By promoting relaxation, these techniques aim to reduce spasms and discomfort during penetration.

Biofeedback Training: Biofeedback devices provide visual feedback to help individuals gain awareness and control over pelvic floor muscle activity. This tool assists in understanding and modifying muscle responses, enhancing overall pelvic floor health.

Therapeutic Exercises: Tailored exercises focus on improving pelvic floor strength, flexibility, and coordination. These exercises empower individuals to actively participate in their physical healing and promoting long-term well-being.

Dilator Therapy: Graduated dilators, introduced gradually under the guidance of a physiotherapist, help desensitize and stretch the pelvic floor muscles. This therapeutic tool aims to reduce discomfort during penetration and promote a gradual return to pain-free intimacy.


Rediscovering Pleasure and Hope with Latitude Wellness

Individualized Treatment Plans:   At Latitude Wellness, we understand that each individual's experience with vaginismus is unique. Our Vancouver therapists collaborate to create personalized treatment plans addressing both emotional and physical components. This individualized approach ensures comprehensive support tailored to your specific needs.


Empowering Progress:   We understand that progress in overcoming vaginismus is a journey. Our Vancouver therapists provide ongoing support, celebrating every step forward, whether it's improved emotional resilience or increased physical comfort. This emphasis on empowerment helps individuals regain control over their intimate lives.


In conclusion, pain during sex, particularly in the context of vagimusis, can be a challenging and isolating experience. However, at Latitude Wellness in downtown Vancouver, we recognize the multi-faceted nature of vaginismus and offer a beacon of hope and a comprehensive approach that addresses both the primary and secondary causes. With the compassionate support and expertise of our Vancouver registered clinical counselors and the targeted interventions of our Vancouver pelvic floor physiotherapists, we guide individuals towards healing, empowerment, and the rediscovery of pleasurable and pain-free intimacy.

If you or someone you know is navigating the challenges of vaginismus, reach out to Latitude Wellness in Vancouver. Our integrated team is here to support you on your journey to holistic well-being, providing hope and personalized solutions for a fulfilling intimate life.

*We provide low cost counselling, virtual and in person appointments for those seeking extra support.




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